Bully Defense
Tools
The Extendable Bully Stamp
This is where a person can change from a bystander to an upstander. If you see someone acting like a bully to some one else you confront them by giving them the bully stamp.
Example:
You see someone being shoved or threatened. You walk over to the person acting like a bully and confront them using the bully stamp strategy.
STOP:
"Hey Jimmy, stop shoving and threatening Tim."
Bully Denial:
"I'm just messin' with him."
STAMP:
"That looks like bullying to me."
UlLTIMATUM:
"If you don't stop I'm telling Ms. Kern!"
Bully Yammer:
"Dude, Why don't you mind your own business."
2nd ULTIMATUM:
"Bullying is not allowed, if you don't stop acting like a bully you're going to get in a lot of trouble."